Express Your Inner Beauty!

Here are 4 more tips that spiritually conscious singles and couples know about relationships:

• Embrace the courageous and successful you, over-coming fear and failure.
  


• Leave the past and focus on the future.
  


• Express your Inner Beauty!
  


• Create a successful relationship plan and be supported in manifesting that plan right now.

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Relationship Tip: Increase Your Inner Peace

We continue today with more tips that spiritually conscious singles and couples know about:

• Increase your inner-peace and reduce inner conflicts.


• Be present and open in any room, learn how to stand out in a crowd.


• Be attractive to yourself and others, increase your appeal factor.

There are more tips which we will continue to cover over the next few days.

In the meantime, we would love to hear your comments about this information. Feel free to post them below - just click on "comments".

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Is Your Unconscious Running the Show?

Spiritually conscious singles and couples make sense out of relationships. We have a question for you: Could your unconscious be running the show?
Here are a few tips that spiritually conscious singles and couples know about:

• They Learn to communicate from their Soul.


• They Own their strong points and weak spots.


• They Expand themselves into new communities.

There are more tips which we will cover over the next few days. In the meantime, we would love to hear your comments about this information. Feel free to post them below - just click on "comments".

We cover these tips in our Relationship Teleseminar Series - our next call is Tuesday, May 5th. When you register you gain access not only to that call, but all the recordings from the previous 5 calls! This information will certainly move you towards more spiritually conscious relationships. Please join us! And tell your friends about this call - we'll be discussing where to find great dates!

Tips to Cultivating Intimacy in Relationships

To cultivate intimacy, learn and study the keys for a successful relationship. Know what your soul requires, not just what you want. What your soul requires is not optional, what you want can change with age and wisdom.

Identify your top twenty values and choose someone who shares them. Select someone who is committed to growth and development. They will be more likely to seek and accept help during a relationship crisis.

Also, maintain your autonomy. Becoming too attached to the relationship can cause us to lose our self-respect and self-love. People must find ways to meet this and other needs even when their lives are full with children, friends, family or life partners.

Most importantly, consciously choose a great communicator or someone who is willing to work on becoming a more effective communicator. This includes the ability to compromise on the most difficult and unpleasant issues. A win-win attitude will not allow both people to get their needs met.

Finally, be an example of what you want. Seek to give rather than to receive. Provide an affectionate touch, actively listen, make eye contact, make your hellos and good-byes meaningful and try to understand your partner. Before pointing the finger and talking about how you’re not getting what you want, ask yourself if you’re giving it. Lead by example.

Melvin is married and he is a life coach, speaker and facilitator specializing in relationships and personal growth. Melvin has been a guest on radio and television, and he co-hosted "Relationships 911," in L.A. He is currently pursuing a Ph.D. in Psychology, and he has a M.A. in Spiritual Psychology from USM. He has facilitated hundreds of seminars for singles and for couples. MelvinandSherrie.com, 310-248-2733.

Men and Their Fear of Intimacy - Part 2

Continuing our discussion from last time...

Many women embrace this fantasy and wait to meet Mr. Right. But, the truth is that many eligible men are shy and lack the skills to sweep dust off the floor, let alone be intimate. You may meet a man whose goal is to keep it simple and make you happy, but emotional intimacy may not be a skill he’s developed. You may have to teach him about intimacy, demonstrate it and share it. Or, the two of you may need to learn about intimacy together.

If you are emotionally unavailable, lack the ability to be intimate or are unaware of your power, then that will affect your relationship even if you are lucky enough to have prince charming ride up.

Tomorrow we will continue this discussion with tips on cultivating intimacy...

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Men and Their Fear of Intimacy - Part 1

If fear, hurt and disappointment have kept you from entering into your ideal relationship know that you are not alone. When faced with a fear of intimacy, we have three options: quit and run, stay like a frozen piece of ice with no emotion or consciously choose to take a risk and feel the exuberance of being alive. To me, that means taking 100% responsibility for your relationships.

Women are usually taught at a young age to allow “prince charming” to come and sweep them off their feet. Many women watched Cinderella and Snow White when they were younger. Their mothers didn’t know that they were teaching their daughters to look for someone to rescue them and bring passion to their lives.

Is this you? We would love to hear your comments about this and we will continue this discussion next time!

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To Listen With Love

From “to let go takes love” To “to communicate with love”...

To communicate with love does not mean stop caring, it means I cannot listen for someone else.

To communicate with love does not mean to cut myself off, it is the realization I cannot control another’s speaking.

To communicate with love is not to try to change or blame another, it is to find the spirit and love in every word spoken.

To communicate with love is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome of every conversation is not in my control.

To communicate with love does not mean to care for, but to care about.

To communicate with love does not mean to fix, but to accept another as a beautiful gift.

To communicate with love does not mean to judge, but to allow another the dignity and freedom to express themselves without judgment.

To communicate with love does not mean to deny, but to accept.

To communicate with love does not mean interpreting every word to fit my understanding, but fully embracing every word with an abundance of love and acceptance.

To communicate with love means to connect with another’s soul and spirit.

To communicate with love means listening to another like every word might be their last.

To communicate with love means listening to another like their words have the potential to alter life, as we know it.

To communicate with love means listening to everyone like you would listen to GOD.

To communicate with love means listening to you like you are the only person in the world.

~ Melvin L. Allen