Communicating With Men - Step One

When communicating with men, the first decision a woman must made is on what she is going to say.

The topic needs to be well designed.

Speaking in generalities to a man is like herding cats, a lot of work and highly ineffective.

Repeating the topic multiple times and screaming is a sure sign that you are not be heard.

Women should be succinct, using as few words as possible with a goal to make a clear and meaningful request or statement.

Make one request at a time with suggested deadlines and seek confirmation like you would if ordering clothes on the internet.

Tomorrow, we'll cover Step Two!

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Communicating with Men - Introduction

Women often complain about men not listening or hearing.

Some men have been trained by therapist, coaches, seminars or other women how to listen, they are the exceptions.

The truth of the matter is women have never been trained or taught what, when and how to communicate to men in order to be heard.

There are three factors that must be incorporated in every conversation to be effectively heard by most men.

Tomorrow we will cover the first factor!

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Express Your Inner Beauty!

Here are 4 more tips that spiritually conscious singles and couples know about relationships:

• Embrace the courageous and successful you, over-coming fear and failure.
  


• Leave the past and focus on the future.
  


• Express your Inner Beauty!
  


• Create a successful relationship plan and be supported in manifesting that plan right now.

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Relationship Tip: Increase Your Inner Peace

We continue today with more tips that spiritually conscious singles and couples know about:

• Increase your inner-peace and reduce inner conflicts.


• Be present and open in any room, learn how to stand out in a crowd.


• Be attractive to yourself and others, increase your appeal factor.

There are more tips which we will continue to cover over the next few days.

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Is Your Unconscious Running the Show?

Spiritually conscious singles and couples make sense out of relationships. We have a question for you: Could your unconscious be running the show?
Here are a few tips that spiritually conscious singles and couples know about:

• They Learn to communicate from their Soul.


• They Own their strong points and weak spots.


• They Expand themselves into new communities.

There are more tips which we will cover over the next few days. In the meantime, we would love to hear your comments about this information. Feel free to post them below - just click on "comments".

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Tips to Cultivating Intimacy in Relationships

To cultivate intimacy, learn and study the keys for a successful relationship. Know what your soul requires, not just what you want. What your soul requires is not optional, what you want can change with age and wisdom.

Identify your top twenty values and choose someone who shares them. Select someone who is committed to growth and development. They will be more likely to seek and accept help during a relationship crisis.

Also, maintain your autonomy. Becoming too attached to the relationship can cause us to lose our self-respect and self-love. People must find ways to meet this and other needs even when their lives are full with children, friends, family or life partners.

Most importantly, consciously choose a great communicator or someone who is willing to work on becoming a more effective communicator. This includes the ability to compromise on the most difficult and unpleasant issues. A win-win attitude will not allow both people to get their needs met.

Finally, be an example of what you want. Seek to give rather than to receive. Provide an affectionate touch, actively listen, make eye contact, make your hellos and good-byes meaningful and try to understand your partner. Before pointing the finger and talking about how you’re not getting what you want, ask yourself if you’re giving it. Lead by example.

Melvin is married and he is a life coach, speaker and facilitator specializing in relationships and personal growth. Melvin has been a guest on radio and television, and he co-hosted "Relationships 911," in L.A. He is currently pursuing a Ph.D. in Psychology, and he has a M.A. in Spiritual Psychology from USM. He has facilitated hundreds of seminars for singles and for couples. MelvinandSherrie.com, 310-248-2733.

Men and Their Fear of Intimacy - Part 2

Continuing our discussion from last time...

Many women embrace this fantasy and wait to meet Mr. Right. But, the truth is that many eligible men are shy and lack the skills to sweep dust off the floor, let alone be intimate. You may meet a man whose goal is to keep it simple and make you happy, but emotional intimacy may not be a skill he’s developed. You may have to teach him about intimacy, demonstrate it and share it. Or, the two of you may need to learn about intimacy together.

If you are emotionally unavailable, lack the ability to be intimate or are unaware of your power, then that will affect your relationship even if you are lucky enough to have prince charming ride up.

Tomorrow we will continue this discussion with tips on cultivating intimacy...

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